Trust

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/wales/7988008.stm

This link is to a news article about a woman who is thought to have been murdered by her husband. This is one of many cases where someone close who is considered as a loved one has committed such a brutal crime.

I find it quite scary in the fact that you may think you know someone but perhaps you are not even scratching at the surface?! I am sure this woman would not have married someone that she knew would later murder her for whatever his reasons may be.

Can you ever trust anybody with your life?

I see trust as a very big thing because without it there is going to be one hell of an insecure relationship. Constantly checking up on people, doubting things that have been said and accusations. Not what i would consider as a healthy lifestyle. But what exactly is trust? Is it we trust someone to not cheat? Trust them to lock the doors at night when you leave them to lock up at night? Trust them to not let you down and always have your back? I find humans when pushed into certain situations become primitive again and i think when it is a situation of either your neck or mine the majority would save their own.....does that mean that they are untrustworthy?

I read once (cant remember where) that humans actually are not very good at co habiting. They are very lone creatures and find it very hard to adapt to having to put up with one another...is this man in question perhaps not so well adapted to this lifestyle and that is what made him flip? God only knows and i think it may be best that way....but my goodnes....humans are hard to understand?!